The story “Cinderella” resembles, morally speaking, many of those that have also been with us since the beginning of our modern fairytale-telling tradition. As a result, many of the dated views of the societies in which they were first told/popularized are, even in today’s renditions, polluted with misogyny, which ultimately dilutes whatever moral the story was trying to apprise. In these retellings, she is seldom envisioned as anything more than “a thing” that must be saved or protected (by a man) from some adversary; and yet it is her name that the reader is struck by on the title page. The magnitude of her beauty and helplessness is made known immediately; the things that she finds herself having or needing are always out of her reach.
Unlike most of her audience (i.e., the readers), Cinderella is left really with two choices to make with her life: marry or perish. It can be implied that Cinderella’s life could have been cut short, like similar central female characters in other narratives, if it weren’t for the literal Prince Charming that comes in and saves his bride-to-be. The imaginative reader can imagine a myriad of alternate universes in which Cinderella lives the rest of her life under the roof of her stepfamily—growing old and eventually dying an unmarried woman—or even throwing herself over a bridge to end their reign of terror over her life. But neither of those scenarios occur. Instead, by powers unknown, she is blessed with a beautiful dress and jewelry with which she’s to adorn herself (Grimm). The story focuses on Cinderella’s marriage as the primary vehicle for her happiness reinforces traditional gender norms and expectations prevalent in the times when these stories originated. It suggests that a woman’s value and fulfillment are intrinsically tied to her ability to attract a suitable partner, often a prince or someone of high social standing (Bruce 24). This portrayal may inadvertently convey the message that a woman’s worth is defined by her marital status rather than her individual qualities, skills, or aspirations.
Cinderella’s housework serves as a metaphorical training ground for her future role as a “good and obedient” housewife in her anticipated life with the prince. The fairy tale portrays Cinderella as a virtuous and industrious young woman who diligently performs her chores despite the cruelty she faces from her stepmother and stepsisters. This portrayal reflects societal expectations and traditional gender roles prevalent at the time the story originated, as well as in subsequent retellings. The laborious tasks assigned to Cinderella, such as cleaning, cooking, and mending, symbolize the societal ideals of femininity that prevailed during the period when the tale was first popularized. Cinderella’s resilience and diligence in completing these tasks showcase her virtue and fortitude, qualities traditionally associated with idealized womanhood. The narrative implies that her ability to endure hardship with patience and grace is a precursor to her suitability as a partner for the prince. The transformation that occurs during Cinderella’s journey from “rags to riches” reinforces the notion that her domestic skills are an essential component of her worthiness for the prince. The enchantment that allows her to attend the royal ball underscores the idea that her innate goodness, symbolized by her dedication to housework, deserves to be rewarded with a life of privilege and prosperity. However, it’s important to approach this interpretation with a critical lens. The traditional Cinderella story reflects the societal norms of its time, which were characterized by rigid gender roles and expectations for women. Modern reinterpretations of the tale often seek to challenge and subvert these traditional tropes, presenting Cinderella as a more complex and independent character who transcends traditional gender stereotypes. Contemporary adaptations may reimagine Cinderella as a woman who seeks personal fulfillment beyond marriage, who pursues her dreams and aspirations, and who challenges societal expectations (Martin 331). By doing so, these adaptations encourage a more nuanced and empowering view of women’s roles, moving away from the notion that a woman’s worth is solely determined by her ability to conform to traditional domestic expectations.
Cinderella’s physical attractiveness indeed plays a dual role in the classic fairy tale, serving as both a source of mistreatment from her stepmother and stepsisters and a catalyst for her ultimate happiness through marriage to the prince. The narrative unfolds with Cinderella being subjected to cruelty by her stepfamily, driven, in part, by jealousy and a perception of her beauty as a threat. Cinderella’s stepmother and stepsisters, perhaps motivated by societal expectations and conventional beauty standards, react to her physical attractiveness with resentment and hostility. The theme of the degraded heroine winning over her abusing stepsisters is prominent in the story (Bettelheim 236). The mistreatment she endures, symbolized by her relegated status to a servant in her own home, suggests that her stepfamily perceives her beauty as a potential rival to their own social standing or desirability. The stepsisters’ envy, fueled by Cinderella’s perceived threat to their chances of securing the prince’s favor, adds a layer of complexity to the narrative. On the other hand, the prince’s choice to marry Cinderella is explicitly tied to her physical appearance. The classic fairy tale often emphasizes the enchanting qualities of Cinderella that captivate the prince at the royal ball. The iconic glass slipper, a symbol of her unique physical attributes, becomes the key to their reunion and eventual marriage. This aspect of the story reinforces conventional notions of love and attraction based on outward appearances, raising questions about the depth of the connection between Cinderella and the prince beyond the superficial.
In reimagined versions of the classic tale, Cinderella is portrayed as a resilient and resourceful protagonist who asserts her agency in the face of adversity. Instead of relying solely on the intervention of a fairy godmother or the prince’s pursuit, these narratives emphasize Cinderella’s own strengths, skills, and determination. One way Cinderella can choose her own destiny is by pursuing her dreams and aspirations beyond the confines of traditional gender roles. Rather than simply yearning for a magical transformation or a prince to rescue her, she may actively work towards her goals, whether they involve education, a career, or personal fulfillment. This shift challenges the notion that a woman’s destiny is exclusively tied to marriage and opens up new possibilities for Cinderella’s character. Additionally, Cinderella’s relationships with other characters can be redefined in modern retellings to highlight the importance of supportive friendships, mentorships, and alliances. By forming connections with individuals who appreciate her for more than just her appearance, Cinderella can build a network of allies who contribute to her journey of self-discovery and empowerment. Moreover, contemporary adaptations often explore the complexity of Cinderella’s character beyond the superficial. She may possess qualities such as intelligence, courage, and compassion that go beyond traditional notions of beauty. By showcasing these attributes, modern Cinderella narratives challenge stereotypes and encourage audiences to appreciate the multifaceted nature of women’s identities.
The traditional Cinderella narrative indeed reflects and upholds certain gender roles and stereotypes that were prevalent in the cultural and social context of its origins. Cinderella’s transformation from a mistreated servant to a princess reinforces the notion that a woman’s success and well-being are intrinsically tied to her ability to attract and marry a man. This narrative reinforces traditional gender roles by emphasizing women’s dependence on men for social mobility and economic security. The emphasis on her external appearance, particularly in the context of the royal ball and the prince’s search for the owner of the glass slipper, reinforces societal ideals that equate a woman’s attractiveness with her worth and desirability. This perpetuates the message that a woman’s appearance is a crucial factor in determining her happiness, particularly through marriage. It reinforces harmful beauty standards and contributes to the objectification of women. Cinderella is often portrayed as a passive character who endures mistreatment until external forces, such as a fairy godmother or a prince, intervene to change her circumstances. This portrayal suggests a lack of agency on Cinderella’s part to actively shape her own destiny. Her transformative journey is often catalyzed by external intervention rather than her own initiative or choices. This reinforces the stereotype that women lack the agency to take control of their lives and make decisions independently. While these traditional gender roles are inherent in the classic Cinderella story, it’s important to note that modern adaptations often seek to challenge and subvert these stereotypes. Contemporary retellings may present Cinderella as a more empowered and independent character, capable of determining her own destiny beyond the confines of societal expectations. These adaptations contribute to a broader cultural conversation about redefining gender roles and promoting narratives that empower women to pursue fulfillment on their own terms.
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